Jules & James - He ain't heavy.... He's my brother.

Nowadays when Jules request to carry his little brother, we will always try to accommodate to his request because we feel that it will foster stronger ties between them. Also we want Jules to feel that he is part of the family and to welcome the little one.

As long as there's supervision, the elder sibling should have a chance at playing the older role of looking after the younger one. That way he has a sense of responsibility and feels that he is helping out in the family chores too. Rather than to shun him away from his little brother because of being afraid that the baby is too fragile for him to handle, I believe this is the better alternative.

Don't you think so too?